It’s that time of year again, the time when college’s all over the country are getting ready to start their fall semester, girls are getting ready to move into dorms and apartments going to school full time. A lot of them are also looking for a SD!
Many girls are headed back to school, which means there are a lot of new girls on Seeking and a lot that haven’t been active looking again.
The bottom line is that unless you have your family paying for your school you can’t afford to go to school. Sure there is financial aide but it rarely covers enough or covers enough girls that need it. Jobs that work with a full time students schedule tend to be low paying and never enough to make ends meet. So more than ever girls are looking to SD’s to make up the gap in income.
Considering most girls can make as much as they would working full time in one meeting, it’s a logical choice. Spend a few pleasurable hours with a man or work 40+ hours in a boring job. If the girl can handle it, she can see 2-3 SDs a week and truly be living easy all throughout her college years.
Tips for SDs working with college girls
First many of the girls going to college are not fresh out of high school, they are in their mid twenties and not late teens. These are two totally different mind sets, levels of maturity to deal with.
Let’s start with the 18-20 year old girls.
First off many of these girls are new to sugar dating and have been reading the advertising! Unfortunately for them, the idea that they are going to find a lot of non-sexual arrangements is just not reality. This is going to weed out many of them in the first couple of months on Seeking or they are going to give in and start having sex with older men.
So first tip, look at every new girl in your area. Don’t discount her if she is looking for a non-sexual arrangement, check back on her profile after a couple of months. You might be surprised how many change their minds about sex.
Next as you might expect, a fair number of these girls are inexperienced with sex and are touchy about it. The trend, at least in my area, is for girls to fuck on the first meeting, which is a reversal back to the old days from recent history. This is simply too much for a fair amount of the 18-20 year olds looking for their first arrangement. So be willing to go a bit slower with them! Don’t let them play the “take it slow” game, be clear about what is expected and when it’s expected. As always be perfectly clear, especially with allowance, as many will opt to provide a reduced allowance until they are getting all of her.
Next these girls tend to be less reliable and less consistent than a girl just a few years older. They are almost never on time, will do stupid shit and cancel last minute on you. Sometimes they just can’t face fucking you that day, sometimes it’s truly something as simple as forgetting a prior engagement, like scheduled for work… I recommend you be strict with these girls, but willing to tolerate some of this behavior unless your intention is to fuck her a couple of times and hope you never hear from her again. Be a mentor, and teach her the value of being true to your word, of being on time. One thing I did recently was “dock her allowance”. So if we were scheduled to meet at 2pm but she didn’t show her sexy ass up till 4pm, she got $100 per hour late subtracted from her allowance that meeting. If you’re going to do this, just make sure she knows about it up front, don’t spring it on her.
You will likely have to teach many of these girls how to suck and fuck properly, and frankly many are looking for just that as a benefit of the arrangement. They are used to boys that pop off a load by just looking at them. So they’ve never been pounded for 30 minutes straight or had to really suck a dick. So take the time to teach them, it will only benefit you in the end.
Make it clear to these girls rather you will rescue them or not, or some limited version of that. They tend to get the idea in their head that they have a SD so they don’t have to worry about money anymore. Encourage them to save money! Encourage them to take a part-time job, too many questions of “where is her money coming from, she doesn’t work…”. Remind them that the average arrangement doesn’t last more than a few months and it takes time to find a new SD.
One last note to newer SDs… just because a girl is 18, 19 or 20, doesn’t make her any better than a girl that is 21-30+. They have scars, stretch marks, saggy tits, wrinkles and gaping pussies just like older girls do. It’s their personalities and view points that make them different than any other age group. If you’ve never fucked a 18 year old (as an older man) don’t go in expecting something out of this world experience, she likely isn’t as good as a average 24 year old…
The 21-25 year old girls
This group tends to be much more down to earth with expectations and intimate relationships. They have the benefit of having worked in the real world, which is the same as being in an arrangement. Yes you are expected to show up ready when you are scheduled to, and yes you are expected to do the work you are hired to do rather you like it or not. Just like being a SB…
That sounds pretty harsh, but it’s the reality of it. SD’s have worked hard for their money, they have schedules to keep. When they schedule a meeting with a SB they are often not only taking money out of their pocket to pay her allowance, but in time lost making money. So ladies we take this seriously and so should you.
That doesn’t mean an arrangement has to be “strictly business” or super tense and serious. SDs do not get into sugar dating because they want to lose money or have drama and complexity in their lives. They want to have some fun with a young girl and go about their lives without having to worry about her.
First many of the girls in this age range are looking for pretty much the same thing most SDs are, a simple, easy, drama free relationship with great sex and reasonable allowance. You are much more likely to find a SB that is strictly looking to meet in private, have a conversation, get fucked and leave, than you will with a younger SB. Simple is the key word here, not only to search for (hint hint) but the way it should be.
These girls are simply not going to tolerate any BS on your part Mr SD. Be respectful as you should be with anyone. Be true to your word and be honest if something happens and you can’t your word.
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